Hi, I’m Paula - I am a dating and early relationship coach and founder of The Dating Whisperer.

After a 30 year career in the corporate world, and a marriage of 17 years, I found myself burnt out and single in my fifties.

I always felt confident in my work, as a Mum and in life, but I felt completely out of my depth dating again after so long. I spent seven years unsuccessfully dating; second guessing myself, settling for the wrong men for me, and falling into patterns that I didn’t understand.

Then it began to change.

I met and worked with a dating coach. Before embarking on this journey, I never knew that this specialist advice existed. She fundamentally challenged how I approached dating and this was the start of my positive transformation, one I didn’t even know I needed! Since then I have immersed myself in the world of dating psychology, coaching, relationship dynamics, and attachment theories. I have devoured everything on the subject and I feel proud to have become an expert in helping women like you.

And so the “Date in Eight” coaching program was born, which blends self discovery, encouragement, support, dating tips, communication development and so much more.

Today I am flourishing in a wonderful relationship and I know how it feels to find the right person after years of getting it wrong.

Now, I help women like you cut through the noise, feel clear and confident and date with positive intention. Finding love isn’t about getting lucky, its about discovering the secrets to successful dating and being certain that the way we date and who we date is aligned with ourselves.